Dear Jim A. and Family,
January 12, 2001, was my second birthday (not bad for a 52 year old man), and I met it with joy and gratefulness.
I’ve thought of you many times and I look forward to my next visit. Oasis was my seventh center and last hope. Starting my prayer life there not only saved my life, it started me on a life of "Happy, Joyous and Free."
I remember one Fireside meeting where Jim confessed he primarily remembered his "problem residents," not the quiet ones. I, a quiet one, immediately asked for an appointment to meet with him privately. It was important to me that he remember me-as I was already extremely grateful for Oasis.
He asked how my last treatment compared to Oasis. My last program, which kept me dry for 3 months was more expensive, had better food, and a heavy concentration on the first 5 steps-it had no prayer. Not even a suggestion and little opportunity for it.
I am no longer bitter about my last program. I’ve learned much in retrospect from that experience. However, Oasis will always have a special place in my heart. I especially loved the prayer learning sessions, and I’ve been able to share those thoughts with others in my AA volunteer work at another hospital treatment center in my hometown-one of my 7.
I never mentioned this while I was at Oasis, but while there I was a serving, active (ordained) Presbyterian Elder and Deacon. Yet, until Oasis, it had never occurred to me to pray-and I really never
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